In this present world nudity is
celebrated in almost every sector, ranging from the music videos to
advertorials. Wrong is the new right and right the new wrong. This pretty much
explains the topic we’re debating today. What is really wrong in sending nude
images to people, be it picture or video? It has increasingly being seen as a
norm among adults and youths. Little
wonder we keep hearing about leaked sex tapes and nude pictures.
A story of an Italian young lady who
sent a sex tape to her ex-boyfriend to make him envious, and the said video
went viral on social media. She couldn’t bear the humiliation anymore even
after winning the legal battle to have it taken off the internet. She later committed
suicide.
People had this to say: “I have actually
sent nude pictures to my boyfriend on several occasions. I felt I should
because it strengthens our love for each other. I don’t want him thinking about
other ladies like that. So when he asked I obliged him”
An undergraduate: “I do it all the time.
I’ve been with my boyfriend since 200 level and we’re both in our final year,
its normal. I feel he has seen my nakedness and so it’s cool. Besides I don’t
send my
face, just from the waist down.
face, just from the waist down.
Chidi, 32 reacts intensely against it.
“I can’t think of doing that. Apart from it being ghastly, it’s also morally
wrong. What if you fallout with your guy and he uses that to spite you by
posting it online? You never can tell. You hear about many leaked nudes and sex
tapes these days, girls that still do that need to stop and think.”
Mike, a barber: “It’s not really a big
deal. I believe if you trust yourselves in the relationship then there is no
cause for alarm. Truth of the matter is, I’ve asked my fiancĂ© to send me her
nudes, she object at first but I promised her that it go well. I believe it’s
just a way for me to excite myself whenever she’s not around”
From the feedback above, it can be seen
that, it is mostly MEN that ask for nudes. Some sees nothing wrong with it in
sending nude. However I must advise that there are grave penalties for both the
sender and the receiver. As recent happenings have shown, it never ends well.
It is never right to send nudes, no matter how we try to paint it. It is so disgusting.
There are men who show their fellow men in offices and even in some social
gatherings the nudes of some of the girls that they have cross. They crack
jokes over it. Some pride with such pictures.
What if the person you’re sending it to
betrays your trust and shares the picture with his friends and reveals the
person? Some do so. What if someone stumbles on it while scrolling through your
phone or your partner’s? What if after a bad parting, your partner decides to
hurt you by making the picture go viral? Can you deal with the aftermath? It
can be horrendous. That everyone is doing it now does not make it right. Some
actually send inside of the real thing. And feel good when their men confirm
the pictures make them crazy. To all the ladies out there, you may want to
reconsider before sending that nude photo or video. Think of the possible
consequences before you send or post that part of you that should remain
private and even sacred.
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